Your wedding day will fly by—and while it’s easy to get swept up in the schedule and details, the most meaningful photos come when you’re truly present. As your photographers, our job goes beyond just capturing the moment—we help you feel grounded in it.

Here are 7 wedding day tips to help you feel confident, relaxed, and radiant on camera (and in real life).

Before the chaos begins, take five quiet minutes with your partner, a parent, or even alone. Whether it’s a prayer, deep breath, or short letter exchange, centering yourself early helps you stay emotionally present—and it shows in every photo.


Running behind is one of the biggest sources of stress. Add extra cushion time between hair/makeup, portraits, and the ceremony. We help you create a photo-friendly timeline with breathing room—so you can soak in the moment, not rush through it.


Put all your detail items (rings, invitations, perfume, vow books, shoes, jewelry) in one box and assign it to a bridesmaid. That way, we can begin styling as soon as we arrive—and you don’t have to answer 10 questions while getting your makeup done.



A first look can calm nerves, give you private time together, and allow for more relaxed portraits before the ceremony. It also frees up your cocktail hour for celebrating—not rushing off for photos. (And yes, it still feels magical walking down the aisle after.)

1. Start the Day with Intention

6. Trust Your Vendors

5. Embrace Natural Emotion

4. Do a First Look (If It Feels Right for You)

3. Have a “Details Box” Ready

2. Build in Buffer Time

You don’t have to “perform” for the camera. Some of the most powerful images happen in the quiet glances, the belly laughs, or the spontaneous tears. We’ll gently guide you when needed, but our goal is always to help you feel like yourself—just a little more dressed up.

This is your day. You shouldn’t be managing a production. Choose vendors who align with your vision and values, then let them do what they do best. At Treadway & Co., we step in with calm confidence, professionalism, and gentle direction so you feel fully supported.




It sounds simple, but it makes a huge difference. A light meal, a water bottle nearby, and a pair of reception shoes can keep you glowing long past golden hour.

7. Stay Hydrated, Eat
Something, and Wear Comfy Shoes (for at least part of the day!)